Indian food has long befuddled me and I would often say I didn't like it particularly well. In part it was a texture thing--there seems to be an awful lot of softness-- and in part a basic lack of understanding about how things worked.If I go out to eat, most places I feel like I can read through the menu and have a pretty good idea of what I'm going to wind up with. There are periodic suprises (like an infamous dinner in Budapest where I wound up with a pork chop topped with canned fruit cocktail and smothered in cheese) but for the most part I feel like I know enough about food and cooking that I can anticipate what will please my palate after reading a description.
This has not worked out for me very well with Indian food though. I'd order something and find my plate to be not really what I wanted and my neighbors' meals always seeming like a better choice. It was really hard for me to figure out what something was going to taste like with just a regional or stylistic name, not that a list of spices would have been much help. I had some really amazing Indian food in the Cameron Highlands of Malaysia where I'd go out hiking in the morning for hours and then come back to a banana leaf curry lunch where I'd get rice and dal, three veg dishes, lime pickle and nan for $2. Stunningly good but I had no idea how any of it worked.
So, I resolved that before I could really say I wasn't very fond of Indian food I would have to learn how it works and how to make it. First I picked up a couple cookbooks and next I went to the bulk spice counter and stocked up with mysterious goods like fenugreek and cardamom pods. A few days ago I made some ghee and read through the Indian section in James Peterson's Sauces which was short but a great overview of how to put together a Indian style dish and in what ways the technique is similar to Western cooking and how it differs.
Today it was time to make something. I started simple, just a basic dal which seems to be the touchstone. I sauteed an onion, added spice once it was golden and then lentils and water and a pinch of salt which hung out covered on the stove until soft. A whirl of the immersion blender and then stirred in slivered garlic and cardamom sauteed in ghee.
Had it for lunch over basmati with a mango lassi. And it was good. And there's leftovers for tomorrow.